Did you ever dislike somebody deeply and emotionally? Well, I did. In fact, I'm now facing this kind of situation. Why do I hate that somebody so much? It's because of my immature behaviour. People say that hate cannot exist without love. In fact, the strongest hate comes when it's about love. Sometimes I dislike people because of jealousy, but hating someone due to jealousy is practically immature. I actually hate to dislike people cause I think it's so suffering to hate someone. Especially when I can't do something to that person even if I hate him/her and that makes me feels like killing myself. But I always choose the BEST way. Speak to God. Ask Him to give you peace in mind. This helps! ALL THE TIME.
This is what I found on the internet on how to stop hating someone due to jealousy.
1. Try not to criticize -
It is easy to see fault in things, but try to find thebeauty in everything including people. everyone has good things about them as well as not so good things. Just find the good in everyone and do not focus so much about their imperfections.
2. Try to be around the person more -
Yeah this might sound a bit odd, but once you hang out with them more you may find good qualities you admire in them. Maybe you just go the wrong impression of them at first, give it a little time.
3. Do something nice for that person -
It is easy to expect things from others, but to give is a selfless act. See how you feel as you do a good deed for the and maybe the two of you can start over. When you help someone out it helps you feel better about yourself and you my see that person differently..
4. Talk to them -
If there is something you just can not get passed, take the time to talk it out with them. Sometimes we get the wrong impressions or take something a different way then it as intended. Maybe it was a miss communication that is making you feel hatred towards the person. The best way to find out is communication!
I think it's super hard to force myself to stop hating anyone. I normally stop hating people when they started being nice to me or stop doing something that irritates me. I did not force myself not to hate them, I just stop hating them naturally. Every time I stopped hating a person, I felt good! I wish I can be nice to that somebody. I really wish for it. I don't want to hate that somebody anymore. SERIOUSLY. So I'm going to try not to criticize that somebody, try to be around that somebody more, try to do something nice for that somebody and talk to that somebody. Wish me luck! (:
Favourite Sentences Of The Day
Sometimes there is just going to be someone
you met that you particularly do not care for.
Sometimes that very person is someone you
have to see from time to time whether you like
it or not. While it is much easier think of all the
reasons you do not like them, it is better for you
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